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You are Worthy! Flaws and All

Let's be clear - there are no perfect human beings. We all make mistakes. The human experience is full of ups and downs, learning as you go, applying what you've learned, and moving on. Sometimes we make mistakes and we get down on ourselves. We are our own worst critics after all. But we must remind ourselves, that our mistakes and imperfections don’t define us, they simply make us human. Our worth is not found in being perfect, but in knowing how to accept our flaws and how to learn, grow, and work towards becoming the best version of ourselves. It’s important to remember that even with all your flaws, you deserve respect and love from someone who truly values you for who you are. In fact, the right person in your life will recognize those imperfections and still want to love you for them.


You Are Perfectly Imperfect 

It’s human nature to make mistakes sometimes—we’re not perfect! But a man who values you will accept this about you without judgement or criticism. You don’t have to be “perfect” in order for him to care about you or appreciate your worth. He won’t expect perfection from himself either, because then he would have nothing to contribute to the relationship. He loves the real version of you—both the good and bad parts—and wants to help you grow into a better version of yourself too. That is real love and understanding. 


Growth Through Accountability 

The right man will understand that it doesn't make sense for anyone else to "fix" another person's problems; instead, he will support your growth by helping hold accountable when needed - with kindness and compassion rather than criticism or shame. He knows that growth is an ongoing process, so he will be there as an ally along the way, celebrating you through your success and comforting you through your setbacks as you journey towards becoming a better version of yourself. He understands that no one is perfect – including himself – but he also knows how important it is for both partners in a relationship to practice self-awareness, accountability and communication in order to grow together instead of apart from each other over time.

 

The right person will see past your flaws and still want to be with you, but not because they think they can fix all your issues. It is because they understand that being together means having unconditional love and support through thick or thin while being willing to work together on overcoming any obstacles life throws at you along your shared journey towards true happiness together as one unit. This ultimately makes for a more fulfilling relationship than one based on preconceived expectations or idealized notions of what “perfection” looks/feels like anyway. You need someone who loves/accepts ALL facets of who you are first & foremost before anything else. So don't forget — YOU ARE WORTHY OF LOVE AND RESPECT ! ♥️♥️♥️ 

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