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Sometimes we often find ourselves in situations where we feel undervalued by our significant other. We give all our love, care, and attention to make our partner happy, but sometimes, they don't reciprocate our efforts. It can be a frustrating and hurtful experience, leaving us feeling unappreciated and unwanted. But why does this happen? Why do some men take their partners for granted? Let's explore three common reasons why this could be happening and what we can do about it. Photo by Alex Green His value system makes him ignorant to your value. One of the main reasons why men take their partners for granted is that their value system differs from ours. For them, emotional support, care, and attention may not hold the same importance as it does for us. They may prioritize other aspects of life, such as their career, hobbies, or friends. They may not realize the effort that goes into maintaining a healthy relationship and undervalue the importance of emotional support. This cou

As women, we often wonder if the men we are dating see us as potential wives or just temporary flings. It's natural to want a committed relationship and to know if we are on the same page as our partners. Sometimes, it can be difficult to read a man's intentions, but his actions can speak volumes. Here's how a man's behavior can indicate whether or not he sees you as wife material: Photo by Trung Nguyen He Makes Effort to Show You Love When a man is serious about a woman, he will go out of his way to make her feel loved and appreciated. He will show effort in planning dates, surprising her with small gestures, and taking an interest in her life and hobbies. He will consistently check in on her throughout the day and make sure she feels secure in the relationship. If your partner is making an effort to show love in these ways, it's a good sign that he sees you as a potential wife. He Respects Your Time and Energy A man who sees you as his wife will value your time an

Many women in the workforce today face significant challenges in achieving work-life balance. The demands of a career, coupled with family obligations, can lead to excessive stress and exhaustion. But is work-life balance really possible? We believe that with the right strategies, anyone can create a healthier balance and prevent burnout altogether. In this post, we will explore the different principles that can help women achieve work-life balance and enjoy a fulfilling personal life without compromising on their career goals. Photo by Ketut Subiyanto   The first step to achieving work-life balance is understanding that it is your responsibility to set up your own boundaries. You need to prioritize your goals and values and make sure that you allocate enough time for each area of your life. This can be challenging, but with practice and commitment, you can create a schedule that works for you. A key principle to remember is that balance does not mean equal time for everything. It simp

Love is an enigma; it comes when you least expect it and leaves when you want it the most. Sometimes, it may feel like conquering the heart of a man is impossible. But, it is not impossible. It's not magic. It's not luck. It's an art that can be learned. Let me be clear though - You cannot make someone love you. But, if there is a spark, then you can increase your chances of making a strong connection that can evolve into a healthy relationship. Here's what you need to do to captivate that man's heart! Be yourself. The first and most important rule when trying to win a man's heart is to be yourself. Keep in mind that pretending to be someone you're not is never a good idea when you risk falling in love with a projection. Men appreciate authenticity, so don't be afraid of being vulnerable and revealing your true self. Be confident. Self-confidence is a trait that can work wonders in attracting the right man. When you feel good about yourself, you radiate

Break ups are never easy to deal with. The emotions that come with it— anger, heartache, confusion, and sadness—are different for everyone. Some may feel relief and joy from being single, while others can't help feeling lost and longing for their lost love. But regardless of how you feel, it's important to acknowledge that getting over a break up is part of the healing process. In this blog post, we'll go over some steps to help you get over it, recover your old self, and enjoy your life again. Stop all forms of communication with your ex. As much as it might hurt, cutting off all forms of communication with your ex-partner is necessary if you want to start the recovery process. This means blocking them on social media, deleting their number from your phone, and avoiding places or events they may attend. It's tempting to keep in touch, especially if you were close, but this only prolongs your pain and difficulties in moving forward. Distract yourself from your thoughts

Second marriages are often more complex than first marriages, especially when children are involved. With a blended family, there are additional relationships to navigate, and the established relationships with the children can make building a strong bond with your new partner more challenging. The first marriage is often viewed as a time for the couple to grow and mature, but when a second marriage occurs, the relationship dynamic shifts, and the situation can be very different. In this blog post, we'll explore why it's so important to focus on building a strong marriage within your blended family, and how to do it. The first step towards building a strong marriage in a blended family is to acknowledge that things will be different from a traditional first marriage. With children in the picture, you and your new partner will be viewed as "insiders," while your partner may be viewed as an "outsider." This dynamic can be challenging for everyone involved, esp

Can being too nice be a relationship liability? When we think of someone as "nice," we often regard it as a positive quality to have. Being nice is frequently associated with traits such as kindness, empathy, and respect towards others. However, there are circumstances in which being too nice can signify a more significant problem. People who are too nice may struggle with setting boundaries, expressing their opinions, and making their voices heard. In this blog post, we will explore the concept of being "too nice" and how it can be a liability in a relationship. Photo by Kampus Production When Niceness is Not Genuine Niceness One of the main reasons why being "too nice" can be a liability is that it is not always genuine. Some people may be excessively nice as a way of avoiding conflict or pleasing others. Niceness, in this case, is a by-product of low self-esteem, a lack of assertiveness, or a fear of rejection. When you are constantly trying to please o