Authentically Nita

We all come across weak men who blame others for their shortcomings. These men struggle with accountability and reject anything that challenges them to be better. In essence, they are narcissistic and self-centered. It is not easy to deal with such men, especially if you are in a relationship with them. Weak men often have fragile egos, and anything that threatens their fragile sense of self is perceived as a threat. We have to understand that these men are not secure within themselves, and they rely on external validation to feel good about themselves. Therefore, when you try to challenge them to be better, they feel like you are attacking them, and they become defensive. They cannot handle criticism, and they struggle with personal growth. One of the reasons why weak men struggle with personal growth is that they are afraid of change. They are comfortable in their current ways, and they are not willing to step out of their comfort zones. They fear the unknown, and they do not want to

Ladies, it's time to stop dating needy men. You know the ones I'm talking about, the guys who seem to only take from the relationship and never give back. The ones who drain your energy, demand your attention and always need you to do something for them. If you're tired of being the Goodwill of your relationships and donating your vagina to men who don't deserve it, then this post is for you. First, let me clarify what I mean by “needy men.” These are men who are incapable of doing anything for themselves and believe that the world owes them something. They are the ones who always need you to babysit them emotionally or financially. When you’re dating a needy man, you are the one doing all the heavy lifting in the relationship. You're paying for the majority of expenses, driving them around, and picking up their messes.  Let me emphasize the importance of reciprocity in relationships. Relationships should be about give and take. When you're doing everything for

The hunt for the perfect man is never-ending. We want the total package – good looks, humor, wealth, great sex, and intelligence. However, statistics show that many men are not what they seem on the outside. Many of them are just little boys in a grown man's body. Immaturity comes in all shapes and sizes. Trouble happens when we assume that the exterior of a man represents the interior character. So let's talk about how to spot a real man, what qualities make them different from little boys. Photo by KoolShooters   Real men prioritize their mental health and well-being. Mental Health is often a topic that is rarely discussed in men, and some even consider it taboo. However, it is one of the greatest signs that a man is a real man. Real men prioritize their mental health by attending therapy sessions, taking breaks when overwhelmed and participate in activities that promote relaxation and self-care. They are not afraid to admit when things are becoming too much for them, and the

What is true love between romantic partners? I'll tell you what it's not. True love is not candle lit dinners or grand gestures. It isn't walks on the beach or holding hands. Love is spiritual. It is a conscious and loving connection between partners that is free of judgment and unrealistic expectations. It does not conform to relationship norms. By understanding the deeper reasons for being in each other's lives, you can let go of fear and embrace your dynamic as it is. This level of intimacy allows for the healing of personal wounds through the presence of your partner. Should the time come, your inner knowingness, not fear, should dictate the end of the relationship. Photo by Mikhail Nilov   Love blossoms when two souls intertwine on a profound spiritual level. Regardless of your individual beliefs, spirituality serves as a fundamental pillar, shaping your belief system. Partners who align spiritually hold boundless potential for growth, constantly evolving together.

Listen up ladies! It's time to break free from toxic relationships and embrace a brighter future. If you've been caught in a cycle of toxicity with your ex, or that guy who won't commit, this is for you. I know you love him, and I know you will miss him. You're not alone. We've all been there. But, there is hope for a happy, fulfilling life free of stress and uncertainty. At least in your love life.  Step one: Recognize the warning signs. Take a moment to reflect on what went wrong and the red flags you ignored. This self-reflection will empower you to set healthy boundaries and prevent toxic patterns from repeating. Value yourself: Know your worth and stand firm in your beliefs. You deserve love, care, and respect. Once you internalize this, you won't tolerate toxic behavior from anyone, not even Him. By valuing yourself, you'll attract people who treat you with the respect you deserve.  Do not engage: When he comes back, the best thing you can do is to

Love is a beautiful journey but it isn't always easy. Finding the right person takes time and effort, and even when we finally do, there are often challenges that must be faced. As women, we tend to navigate the emotional complexities of relationships differently than men. The way we handle our emotions, make decisions and embrace maturity in our dating lives has a significant impact on our experience. In this blog post, we will explore the challenges and joys of discovering love, and how to make the most of your romantic journey. Photo by Josh Willink   One challenge women face in relationships is picking the wrong man. Many of us have that attraction to "bad boys." Usually when we're younger.  The challenge is in ending up with a man who mistreats you physically or emotionally, or engages in harmful behaviors such as excessive drinking. A lot of bad boy types aren't just acting out when it comes to things in their own life.  They're actually bad people, and