We all come across weak men who blame others for their shortcomings. These men struggle with accountability and reject anything that challenges them to be better. In essence, they are narcissistic and self-centered. It is not easy to deal with such men, especially if you are in a relationship with them.
Weak men often have fragile egos, and anything that threatens their fragile sense of self is perceived as a threat. We have to understand that these men are not secure within themselves, and they rely on external validation to feel good about themselves. Therefore, when you try to challenge them to be better, they feel like you are attacking them, and they become defensive. They cannot handle criticism, and they struggle with personal growth.
One of the reasons why weak men struggle with personal growth is that they are afraid of change. They are comfortable in their current ways, and they are not willing to step out of their comfort zones. They fear the unknown, and they do not want to take risks. So, they resist any efforts to push them towards self-improvement.
These types of men can also be very manipulative. They use gaslighting and deflection techniques to avoid being held accountable for their actions. For instance, when you confront a weak man about something he did wrong, he will try to shift the blame onto you or make you feel like you are overreacting. He will then use this as a way to deflect from his own faults and avoid taking responsibility for his actions.
Weak men are also typically very jealous and possessive. They feel threatened by strong women who are confident and independent. They see such women as a challenge to their masculinity and feel the need to bring them down. They will try to control and manipulate such women to make them feel inferior.
A weak man hates anything that challenges him to be better because he is afraid of change, lacks accountability, fears criticism, and has a fragile ego. Dealing with such a man may require some patience but ultimately, you should just, not deal with a weak man. As women, we cannot allow these weak men to bring us down; instead, we need to empower ourselves and strive towards personal growth and development. We should never settle for less than we deserve and should always surround ourselves with people who uplift us and help us grow. Remember, we are all capable of growth and improvement, and we should never let anyone tell us otherwise.
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